The most important thing

Love.

This is where I could leave it. That one word says it all. Love is the most important thing there is. Love of yourself first and foremost, love of life and love of everyone and everything.

I absolutely love Dr Joe Dispenza’s retreats. Every one of them has helped me to become a better, more evolved version of myself. There were so many magical moments during the first ever 10 day AFU retreat in Cancun last November, but there was one thing that Dr Joe said, which was also written in a special journal we received, that really resonated and has stayed with me: “…remember your greatest ambition isn’t to be a teacher or a master … not even a healer or a mystic. Those are things the soul gets to experience on the journey back to Source. Your greatest ambition … is to become love.”

This is something that I feel deeply and know to be true. For years my greatest ambition has been to become love, to truly love myself and my life and to see love and light in others. Upon reflection, it appears that my life has been fundamentally oriented towards the pursuit of love. My soul programmed me for love.

Becoming love is the most important thing that we can do, which is sadly easier said than done. I know something about it. We come to this world as pure love, but soon it is hammered into us that we are everything but love, everything but amazing, powerful and unlimited beings. We are taught limitations, we are told not to be imagine, not to dream, but focus and pay attention to what others say, believe and do. We hide behind self-made walls and quickly lose sight of who we are beneath our defences. There are so many bad habits, patterns of behaviour and so many limiting beliefs that as adults we need to learn to change.

Everything needs to be transmuted to love.

Can we become love? Can we truly start loving ourselves? Yes, we can. The change won’t happen in a day, but when love is what we are really after, when we are truly honest with ourselves and are not willing to give up, we will most certainly get there.

Consistently choosing yourself and refusing to give up makes the greatest difference.

Wherever you are on your journey, whether you are just beginning or whether you truly love yourself, there is a book that I wholeheartedly recommend to you called “The Art of Relationship: Discover the Magic of Unconditional Love” by Sheila and Marcus Gillette. I adore serendipities and I love how we are divinely guided. This book found me recently and it was exactly what I needed. It will help you with all kinds of relationships, mainly the most important one – with yourself. It is written with all the love, magic and wisdom and contains so many truths and amazing recommendations. It will also show you that unconditional love really exists and is possible not only towards yourself but also others, including in romantic relationships. I absolutely love Sheila and Marcus’s story, how they found one another, what their authenticity, connection and love towards themselves and each other have made possible and how they treat, support and respect one another every day.

Possibilities are endless when one opens their heart to unconditional love.

Dream big and dream with your whole heart. Love is everything and everything is love.

You are a powerful creator of your life. Design it the way you truly want it to be. There are no limits. Not really. Only the ones exist that you believe in and create yourself.

Be limitless. Love with all your heart and enjoy every minute of your life. It is sacred, it is special and it is anything you create it to be 💜