From fear to love

Can our life completely change simply by moving our focus from fear to love? The simple answer is, ‘Yes, it definitely can’.

As a child, I couldn't be myself. I had to pay close attention to what I was saying and doing in order not to be punished. During that period, my lovely mum took on numerous responsibilities on my behalf, which resulted in my increased dependence on her. I didn’t know who I was and I was terrified of doing anything on my own. When school started, I was sick every morning and I would often suffer from upset stomach. Whenever a teacher instructed us to work in groups, I felt comfortable. However, as soon as we were told to complete tasks individually, I was overcome by intense fear and would ask to be excused.  

Fear became a normal part of my life. I say normal, but it wasn't normal or right at all.  The older I got, the more I started to notice traits, emotions and behaviours, mainly in my family, like anger, aggression, violence, fear, jealousy, infidelity, lack and victimisation, that I didn’t agree with and I was determined to put an end to them. These traits were not just present in my parents; they had persisted through many generations in my family. Although I wasn't sure how I could break the cycle, I stayed resolute. I needed to discover who I truly was and find unconditional love. The God I was taught to believe in was not that, but I knew with all my heart that unconditional love existed. I had to find it. There was no other way.

It is the determination, the fact that I never gave up on myself that has led to me to where I am now. Over many years, through courses, books, lectures, retreats, ceremonies, chanting, and meditation, I gradually uncovered more about myself, broke down personal barriers, changed my behaviour patterns, and became more aligned with who I really am, with love.  

I have made many mistakes as a person, as a mother, a wife, a friend, but I no longer judge myself for them. I realised that judging myself or others is simply not loving to me. Everything in my life has served its purpose.

Is fear absent from my life? No, I still sometimes experience thoughts of worry and get anxious, especially recently, however, it doesn’t take me long to notice where I am and change to love and peace. It is the understanding of my true nature, of who I and others really are and my decision to put my focus on love that changes everything and determines my reality.

All of us are love. There is only love.

All that I need to do is to be love. All that I am responsible for is my own energy. I am not here to change or save anybody. Everybody is perfect, guided and loved. Every one of us chose to be here, chose the circumstances and the costume for a reason. Everybody is a powerful creator of their lives and the best thing that we can do for each other is treat the other person with love and respect and see love and light in them.

We did not come here to judge, to worry, to live in lack or to be a victim. We are here to live in joy, harmony, peace, freedom, abundance and to be kind, loving and compassionate.

We don’t have to justify ourselves to others, nor are we obligated to engage in actions that diminish our self-worth. True happiness doesn’t come from pleasing others or persistently doing things that do not make our hearts sing.

We are here to align to Source, to pure love that never judges, blames or shames. We are here to enjoy ourselves, do things we love and live out of love.

The biggest change occurs when we start loving ourselves like Source loves us. Completely and unconditionally.

If you want to change the world, that’s exactly how you do it, by changing yourself, by becoming more of the love you really are.

You are more important than you imagine. You are a part of the whole and by changing yourself, you change the whole.

Our planet and human beings are going through major transformations. So many of us can feel it in our bodies, in our thoughts, emotions and our energy. No matter how hard it seems, please know that everything that happens, happens for you and not to you. Everything is lovingly put there for you to give you an opportunity to transmute and let go of anything that is not love. We are here to grow, to evolve and to become more of the love we truly are. Please be loving, caring, gentle and understanding towards yourself during this time. Rest when you need it, sleep, meditate, spend time in nature, meet with like-minded people and do as many things that bring you joy as possible.

The guidance that I have been receiving recently is all about letting go, trusting and being in the flow, rather than controlling, making goals or decisions. It is about being instead of doing. Less is more. If you live with absolute trust that you are guided, loved, and protected, and stay aligned with love, life flows smoothly. The right path is shown to you. Let everything be choiceless. You already know what you want and you have created it. Let it flow to you. Do not block it, allow it.

Please do not worry if some of these words do not make much sense to you right now. As you persist on your path, eventually things will begin to fall into place; they will resonate with you, and you will find yourself embracing them as a natural part of your life.

You are never on your own. You are always loved, protected and surrounded by loving guides. Open your heart and mind to it. Focus on love. Everything always happens for you in the best possible way and at the most divine time. Allow it. Become one with the love that you are and let everything flow effortlessly to you.

You are loved. You are love. You are divine 💜